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About Bette Freedson

Bette J. Freedson is a clinical social worker, practicing in Southern Maine. She is also the author of many articles. Bette’s first book, “Soul Mothers’ Wisdom/Seven Insights for the Single Mother,” is available at Pearlsong Press.

BETCHA You Can Become a Stress Beating Mom

Mom's have stress. It is a fact of life. The BETCHA process, a simple solution for beating stress, can calm you and help you focus more clearly on the parenting situation--or any situation. Just follow these simple steps. 1. Step One: Breathe. Your breath is the pathway to calming your mind and taming your stress. Conscious [...]

Taming Tantrums: Strategies for Tempering the Tempers!

How much do you dread your child's temper tantrums? When a child melts down, it is not always easy, but always important and particularly helpful, for parents to keep their cool! So take heart. Although these moments present an unwelcome challenge, they are manageable and when handled wisely can make parenting easier as you go [...]

Single Mothers: The Most Valuable Players Every Day

Every day single mothers are on the scene, usually behind the scenes, doing one of, if not  the, hardest job on the planet, going mostly unrecognized for their tremendous contribution to their families and communities. But last week the NBA's pick for most valuable player of the 2014 season, Kevin Durant, brought to light the value [...]

By |2014-05-11T07:19:06+00:00May 11th, 2014|Raising Your Children|

Psychically Respectable and Respectfully Psychic

Have you wondered how come psychic readings have gotten a bad reputation and a bad rap? What is it about neon hands glowing from second story windows that seem to shout out "shlock!" Granted, as in every business, there is some "shlock" in the psychic business, and we could analyze the "how come," but I [...]

Full-ness of Life, Living Fully

Life is full of amazing experiences. Large, medium or small, all are big. Being aware of life's full-ness keeps me motivated, contented, excited and alive. How do you recognize your own experiences of living fully? Which ones in the past have filled you with contentment, satisfaction and aliveness? One of the times I feel most [...]

By |2014-04-05T13:47:13+00:00April 5th, 2014|Single Mothers, Spirit, Women's Issues|

The Blessing of a True Friend

Having a true friend, a real friend, is a blessing that happens once or twice in a life time. I am off to Florida tomorrow to visit my closest friend. "Friend" is not quite the right term for Risa. She has been more like a sister, a nuclear family member. Over many years of growing, [...]

By |2016-12-02T22:22:06+00:00March 1st, 2014|Soul Wisdom|

Find Hope on The Single Mother Path

  I heard today that Michele Obama once likened her parenting situation to that of a single mother. Very interesting, and very understandable. Whether single by choice, separation, divorce, death of your partner, his/her deployment, or his preoccupation with being president of the United States of America, single mothers have a common denominator. We are [...]

Empowered Thinking for Single Moms

You have the power to affect and influence your circumstances. But you can be robbed of  the awareness of your power by fear or other negative emotions. As single moms painful feelings are normal and understandable, but what you tell yourself ( your thinking!) about these emotions can make a difference in the intensity and [...]

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